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Weddings are emotional rollercoasters. One minute everyone’s tearing up as the couple says “I do,” and the next… the groom is crawling under a wedding dress while the DJ blasts “Pony.” Ah yes — the garter toss. A tradition as mysterious as it is hilarious. So, where did this quirky ritual come from, and why do we still do it? Buckle up — things are about to get weird, romantic, and just a tiny bit awkward. Aiming for Good Luck Since… Medieval Times?The garter toss began centuries ago when wedding guests were way too invested in the couple’s honeymoon success. Back in medieval Europe, people believed snagging a piece of the bride’s clothing brought good luck. And by “believed,” I mean they literally tried to rip her dress off for souvenirs. To avoid having their outfits shredded like confetti, brides started pre-removing a small piece of clothing — the garter. Voilà! Instant keepsake, zero wardrobe malfunctions. The Royal Pairing: Bouquet Meets GarterOften, the lucky dude who catches the garter must team up with the lucky lady who caught the bouquet. Cue awkward slow-motion introductions, sometimes ending in a staged prom-pose—because nothing says “true love” like being voluntold to recreate a middle-school dance. Why We Still Love ItEven if it’s a little old-school, the garter toss delivers: Comic relief after all the serious stuff Great photo ops (especially of men dramatically diving like NFL receivers) Fun for guests who didn’t get enough champagne yet Plus, every wedding needs at least one moment that makes grandma gasp and giggle at the same time. A Remix for Modern CouplesTraditions evolve — and the garter toss is no exception! Couples today are: Replacing it with games, raffles, or dance-offs Doing partner-tosses (all genders welcome!) Donating proceeds if guests “buy” their toss chances Skipping it entirely and using those minutes for dessert — also a win Because at the end of the day, every couple should celebrate in a way that feels fun for them. Final ThoughtsThe garter toss may be goofy, bizarre, and occasionally blush-worthy — but it’s also a guaranteed crowd-pleaser. It’s one of those traditions that reminds everyone: yes, weddings are about love… but they’re also about laughing, dancing, and enjoying the once-in-a-lifetime chaos. And hey, if someone walks away holding a stretchy lace trophy and a story to tell — mission accomplished. Some Song Suggestions if you are lookinghttps://open.spotify.com/playlist/4JASNfq4FZLQbBqfJgAnPf?si=MLS1MupoRDiZoT-Dc-jvDQ

You’ve planned the vows. You’ve picked the cake. Your relatives have already argued over the seating chart. But now you’re staring at this century-old tradition thinking: Why am I randomly throwing expensive flowers at single people? Great question. Let’s break down the fun, the history, and the happily-ever-laughter of the bouquet toss! Aiming for Love Since the 1800sBack in the old days, it was believed that anything the bride touched brought good luck — and that guests could boost their own luck by grabbing a piece of her outfit. That meant brides literally ran from guests hoping to snatch her veil, hairpins, or parts of the dress. 😳 To protect the gown (and the bride’s personal space), they came up with the bouquet toss — a cute decoy that says: Today’s Meaning: Hope + HypeThe bouquet toss has become the part of the night where all the single ladies (cue Beyoncé) gather together, laugh, and pretend they’re not taking it seriously… while definitely taking it seriously. Tradition says whoever catches the bouquet is: ✨ Next in line for marriage ✨ …or at least headed for a great Instagram post. Why It’s Still a Wedding FavoriteLet’s be honest — it’s one of the few times at a wedding where: Competition is encouraged Heels become high-stakes athletic equipment Your best friend might tackle your cousin for floral glory And it gives everyone a moment to loosen up after the emotional ceremony. Bonus points for dramatic slow-motion dives. The Photo-Reel MomentPhotographers adore the bouquet toss: A group jump, mid-air Arms flailing like a cheerleading squad in a tornado The instant joy (or shock) on the “winner’s” face The “I almost broke a nail for this” expressions It’s candid chaos — and it’s pure wedding gold. Modern Remix OptionsCouples today love customizing traditions: Toss a second bouquet so you can keep the original Invite everyone to join — no relationship status required Swap the bouquet for a plush toy, blinged-out football, or box of chocolates Donate a prize or a surprise gift inside the bouquet wrap Skip it entirely and just throw more confetti 🎊 (zero injuries!) Your wedding = your rules! Final ThoughtsThe bouquet toss isn’t about predicting the future or forcing engagements — it’s about celebrating love and sharing the excitement. It’s a moment of music, laughter, playful competition, and memories you’ll be talking about long after the dance floor closes. So whether your friends fight for flowers like it’s the Hunger Games or politely shuffle forward like they’re avoiding gym class… someone’s catching a story they’ll never forget. And that’s the real bouquet magic. Song Suggestions if you want themBelow are some song suggestions that you could use for your Bouquet Toss https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5mABBU6bu7oCHyMajeG1bx?si=UllRqrzqR_CRGjdVpr-bsg

This is a dance where you invite all of the wedding party to break open the dance floor. They can dance to either a fast song or a slow song with either their aisle partner or their own significant others. By adding this to your structure you’re including the wedding party as well as giving your guests more time to warm up for dancing. The wedding party dance is a celebratory part of a wedding reception where the newlyweds, their bridal party, and sometimes close family or guests take to the dance floor to perform a choreographed or spontaneous dance routine. This dance can serve as a fun icebreaker for the reception, energizing guests and setting the tone for the evening’s festivities.

I love doing this one right after the Mother-Son Dance because it keeps parents and the newlyweds on the dancefloor one more round. For this dance, you invite out all married couples for a dance. You then have an Emcee announce for all couples who have been married less than a DAY, to remove themselves… That’s YOU TWO! {This gives you a fantastic window in the timeline to go out for sunset pictures!} The DJ then announces for couples who have been married less than a year, 5 years, 10 years… and so on until you’re left with the longest married couple still on the floor. The sap in me loves this because it gives them a spotlight and public tribute to their success as a couple. If you’re not tossing your bouquet you can award it to them as a trophy! An anniversary dance at a wedding or celebration is a special moment where married couples are invited onto the dance floor to share a dance together. Often, the DJ or emcee will gradually ask couples who have been married for shorter periods to step aside, leaving the longest-married couple dancing alone in the spotlight. This beautiful tradition honors enduring love and commitment, creating a heartfelt and memorable moment for all guests.

Every mom wants the best for her son and the Mother Son Dance is a warm feeling to see how much love each have for each other. Below are some song ideas for that special moment. Not surprisingly, most sons want to avoid this one, but it is really, very important to the moms! Now that I myself have two sons I will be highly encouraging this at their weddings! Grooms, go dance with that momma and make sure she knows she isn’t being replaced! Moms might {I say might because I’ve had some pretty emotional FOBs} be a little more sensitive to the meaning of this number than the dads are. Give her her time in the spotlight for raising up such an astounding gentleman.

Everyone feels the love during the Father Daughter Dance but song choices can be difficult. What song do you want playing in the back of your head when you reflect on the beautiful moment you shared with your Dad on the dance floor on your wedding day. Below are some song ideas that might help you find that perfect song. Depending on your relationship with your parents you may be very emotional here or go a little overboard. I think that this dance is truly meant to honor your relationships with your parents. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5ZngZL3zRtkcDjSEc9iZsJ?si=4ImuJZp0Sf-fwRERBMdEHQ

When searching for that perfect song that you two will dance for the first time together as a newly married couple can be difficult for some. Below are some song suggestions to help you find that perfect song. Traditionally, after speeches are made, the couple gives their Reciprocation toast and then makes their way to the dancefloor. There are literally hundreds of different songs you can choose for this dance including slow songs, hip-hop, choreographed songs or even a fancy tango! Whichever style you choose, the two of you essentially “break open” the dancefloor to start the party.

You’re getting married! Now you have the rings, you’ve hopefully made your plans, you have probably developed your guest list, you have booked your reception venue. Now it’s time to choose your Entertainer / Emcee…You’ve come to the right place. Exciting and fun without being loud and overbearing Professionalism Packed dance floors Seamless, timeless parties Limitless pre-planning We offer complete customization of music playlists for the ceremony, cocktail hour and reception with access to detailed online song selection forms, timeline coordination and unlimited pre-wedding consultations to ensure everything runs smoothly. Additionally, you can expect transparent collaboration between you, your wedding DJ, and every other vendor involved to guarantee we are all on the same page and everything is exactly as you would like it to be! Your wedding DJ is the person that will help guide you and your guests through the ceremony and reception that you have worked tirelessly to plan. They will enthusiastically introduce you and your loved ones, politely notify the guests when the food is ready and most importantly, will keep everyone entertained throughout the evening with their amazing music and non-cheesy microphone skills. If you want your wedding to be a flawless and unforgettable night, then hiring a great wedding DJ is a must! Being a successful wedding DJ requires skill, experience, and the ability to read a crowd. You can not get the same outcome by simply using a family friend who knows how to make a Spotify playlist. It may seem like they can handle all the same responsibilities of a professional wedding DJ on paper, but when it comes time to execute, they might not be able to handle the pressure of ensuring your special day goes off without a hitch. This is why hiring the right wedding DJ for your event is key. We have seen it all, in every different way possible so there is nothing that will stop us from making sure your day is perfect! We provide the attached form to help you go through gather information to make the DJ successful at your special day. eventguyz-dj-wedding-worksheet.pdf